Predator

It is somewhat ironic that on “Black Friday” I am writing about a “black subject” that is haunting for all responsible, caring and loving Parents. There seems to be a growing number of demented and despicable people that want to harm Children. It is impossible to fathom how a human being can possess the capacity to kidnap a Child. The entire rash of these Child abuse crimes make decent people feel nauseous and, to a certain degree, helpless. We cannot afford to accept a feeling of helplessness—this lack of confidence that we can do something to control this danger is inexcusable adult behavior! Parents and Authorities must be totally vigilant every moment!

The specific case that caused me to write this article is the Elizabeth Smart kidnapping that occurred in Utah some years ago. The television show that piqued my interest was Anderson Cooper’s 360(CNN) and his recent interview of John Walsh(noted Child Safety Activist). The details of this case sadly begin with a lack of a thorough investigation, by Elizabeth’s Parents(as well meaning as they were trying to be to a fellow human being), of a newly introduced individual(the eventual kidnapper) into their Children’s and Family’s lives. The lack of a complete profile was one of the unintentional factors that  led to an unimaginable and tragic sequence of events — resulting in a nightmare living experience for, most of all, a beautiful young girl, Elizabeth Smart and her Family.

John Walsh went on to describe how Elizabeth’s Parents have been taking wonderful care of Elizabeth since her return by the Police. The Smarts have protected Elizabeth from the media and ensured her having the opportunity to heal. John also pointed out how well Elizabeth and her Parents had protected the prosecution of this case so justice could be done. This has not been the standard in most cases of this nature. Walsh further commented how impressed he was with Lois and Ed Smart.  But, most of all, the knowledgeable Walsh saved his highest praise for Elizabeth . He described her as one of the most remarkable individuals he had ever known. He expressed his total admiration for her courage, her composure, her grace, her style, her patience and her ability to forgive(all concerned, including herself) and move forward.

John Walsh saved his harshest criticism for the selfish and self aggrandizing media. He told of the media’s complete disregard for the well being of any victim—of this victim! They only want to be first with a story, no matter what harm it may cause to an individual, a Family, or a prosecution.

Elizabeth Smart is the “silver lining’ in this story. She exhibits so many qualities, at such a young age, of a true hero. Elizabeth is a shining example of the best ingredients of the human spirit. We honor you, Elizabeth Smart, and wish you an ensuing life of health, happiness, and peace!

Thanks for sharing your time with me—till the next time, stay “ZYKIS SAFE!”

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Awareness is the first step! In doing my research the first thing I realized is that a lot of sites out there charge for their reports. However, I did come across a couple of free options for you.

The first is the United States Department of Justice site. When you start your search on this site you will need to agree the terms and conditions. On the next page you will need to enter the code presented. It then asks you to enter a name or you can click “Advanced Search” to search by zip code. All you need to do is enter your zip code and hit the search button. A list of perpetrators for your area will be displayed with addresses. If you then click on the name, a picture and full information is displayed (including a map button for some states).

The second site is called Family Watchdog. It is a bit busier with advertising but it shows a map for almost every state plotting out where the perpetrators are in relation to your home. The search box is on the left side of the homepage and like on the DOJ site you can enter a complete address or just a zip code. When the map is displayed, zoom in on your home and you’ll see colored squares. Click on the square to get the picture and description of the perpetrators in your area.

I have to tell you that I was very surprised to see how many sex offenders live near my home, my kids’ school and area parks. Be aware!

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