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It is somewhat ironic that on “Black Friday” I am writing about a “black subject” that is haunting for all responsible, caring and loving Parents. There seems to be a growing number of demented and despicable people that want to harm Children. It is impossible to fathom how a human being can possess the capacity to kidnap a Child. The entire rash of these Child abuse crimes make decent people feel nauseous and, to a certain degree, helpless. We cannot afford to accept a feeling of helplessness—this lack of confidence that we can do something to control this danger is inexcusable adult behavior! Parents and Authorities must be totally vigilant every moment!

The specific case that caused me to write this article is the Elizabeth Smart kidnapping that occurred in Utah some years ago. The television show that piqued my interest was Anderson Cooper’s 360(CNN) and his recent interview of John Walsh(noted Child Safety Activist). The details of this case sadly begin with a lack of a thorough investigation, by Elizabeth’s Parents(as well meaning as they were trying to be to a fellow human being), of a newly introduced individual(the eventual kidnapper) into their Children’s and Family’s lives. The lack of a complete profile was one of the unintentional factors that  led to an unimaginable and tragic sequence of events — resulting in a nightmare living experience for, most of all, a beautiful young girl, Elizabeth Smart and her Family.

John Walsh went on to describe how Elizabeth’s Parents have been taking wonderful care of Elizabeth since her return by the Police. The Smarts have protected Elizabeth from the media and ensured her having the opportunity to heal. John also pointed out how well Elizabeth and her Parents had protected the prosecution of this case so justice could be done. This has not been the standard in most cases of this nature. Walsh further commented how impressed he was with Lois and Ed Smart.  But, most of all, the knowledgeable Walsh saved his highest praise for Elizabeth . He described her as one of the most remarkable individuals he had ever known. He expressed his total admiration for her courage, her composure, her grace, her style, her patience and her ability to forgive(all concerned, including herself) and move forward.

John Walsh saved his harshest criticism for the selfish and self aggrandizing media. He told of the media’s complete disregard for the well being of any victim—of this victim! They only want to be first with a story, no matter what harm it may cause to an individual, a Family, or a prosecution.

Elizabeth Smart is the “silver lining’ in this story. She exhibits so many qualities, at such a young age, of a true hero. Elizabeth is a shining example of the best ingredients of the human spirit. We honor you, Elizabeth Smart, and wish you an ensuing life of health, happiness, and peace!

Thanks for sharing your time with me—till the next time, stay “ZYKIS SAFE!”

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By now, most of you have heard the news that Amazon allowed a book to be published from their self-publishing e-book platform called “The Pedophile’s Guide to Love and Pleasure.” This is essentially a how-to guide for Pedophiles. Here is the product description of the book on Amazon:

“This is my attempt to make pedophile situations safer for those juveniles that find themselves involved in them, by establishing certian rules for these adults to follow. I hope to achieve this by appealing to the better nature of pedosexuals, with hope that their doing so will result in less hatred and perhaps liter sentences should they ever be caught.”

According to TechCrunch.com, in one day, this book went from #158,221 to a spot on Amazon’s top 100 list. How? Why is this book even being sold on Amazon and who in the hell is buying this book? I hope people are buying this book for the sole purpose of knowing what is in it so they can adamantly argue against the books very existence. I am afraid to think that some people may be purchasing this book so that they can better understand how to harm children and get away with it!

At this point, there seems to be a question as to whether or not Amazon is going to even pull this book. Earlier today, it was reported that they were not going to remove the book. Here is what they said:

“Let me assure you that Amazon.com does not support or promote hatred or criminal acts; we do support the right of every individual to make their own purchasing decisions.”

“Amazon.com believes it is censorship not to sell certain titles because we believe their message is objectionable.

Later today, Alexia Tostsis of TechCrunch reported that the book was pulled.

2010-11-10, 9:00PM update: A few minutes ago, I wanted to verify that Amazon pulled the book and found that the book was still available.

2010-11-10, 9:30PM update: It appears now that the book is no longer accessible from Amazon. I receive a 404 error message when trying to access the webpage.

We’ll see what Amazon ultimately decides to do in the days to come.

I have been an Amazon Evangelist for quite some time. I love their technology (Cloud – EC2, S3, RDS), their Kindle, and their book selection. I realize now that I have to take a second look at them as a company that I do business with. I hope that my inability to access this book is a sign that they understand that, at some point, you have to draw a line between what is right and freedom of speech.

I have always been someone that favors free speech, as long as it doesn’t physically hurt anyone. This book will hurt children, and it has no place in our society – period!

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I had the pleasure of seeing this video last night. I found it quite amusing, but let’s not miss the larger point here:

  • Should kids be allowed to bring cell phones to school?
  • Why would a student answer a phone call during a class lecture?
  • Are we teaching our kids to become adults that do not respect, relate and empathize with others?

My personal opinion is that a child should be allowed to bring a cell phone to school. The main reason is safety. I feel much better that my daughter can reach me or her mother if there is an emergency. I also believe that kids need to be taught, at a very early age, how to responsibly use technology. The key word here is “responsibly.” I think parents need to teach their children that a cell phone can be just as disruptive, in a class setting, as yelling.

We must not throw the baby out with the bathwater by not allowing cell phones in schools. I think we all realize that technology is a way of life, and those that do not embrace it will be left behind. Allowing kids to use and understand technology, at an early age, will give them a head start in navigating their way through this technical world. I believe within the next 5 years, we’ll probably start to see many colleges go completely away from printed text books. Expect to see every college student carrying around some type of tablet device, e.g., Apple iPad, Amazon Kindle, Barnes and Noble Nook, etc., in the not too distant future. These devices not only will take the place of text books but will also be their primary note taking device. So kids need to start using these devices early in life.

So why did the student answer the cell phone in the first place? My initial thought was that many kids aren’t taught basic common courtesies. We need to teach our kids that their actions can often effect others. In the case of a student answering a cell phone in class, the student disrupted the teacher from teaching and the other students from learning. The question is, did the student realize this? Or did he even care? Was his needs more important than everyone else’s? I guess he can only answer those questions.

On a related note: I am an owner of a small company. Recently, I had to send out a companywide mandate restricting personal cell phone use. A couple of employees were abusing my relaxed cell phone policy. Personal texting and phone calls were at an abusive level. What I found perplexing was that a couple of the abusers were totally in the open about what they were doing. It was as if they either did not care or did not realize that having the company pay them to take personal calls or personal text messages was wrong. Where does that come from? They are good employees! One thought I have is that this, blatant, out in the open abuse, was happening because it was behavior that was learned as a kid.

Finally, I believe that we, as parents, need to spend more time teaching our kids how to empathize and relate more effectively with others.

Everything in this article is my opinion. I look forward to hearing your comments and particularly how your opinion might differ from mine!

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The article points out that Craiglist is pointing a finger at Ebay for the behavior of its Spanish subsidiary Loque.   Loque has depictions of “young Asian females engaged in unprotected sex,” says Craiglist CEO Jim Buckmaster.

In the past, Craigslist has received a substantial amount criticism over its alleged allowing of sex trafficking.  Buckmaster recently pointed out that Craigslist has made significant efforts into moderating inappropriate listings on their site.   See the TechCrunch article for more details.

TechCrunch Article

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