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It is somewhat ironic that on “Black Friday” I am writing about a “black subject” that is haunting for all responsible, caring and loving Parents. There seems to be a growing number of demented and despicable people that want to harm Children. It is impossible to fathom how a human being can possess the capacity to kidnap a Child. The entire rash of these Child abuse crimes make decent people feel nauseous and, to a certain degree, helpless. We cannot afford to accept a feeling of helplessness—this lack of confidence that we can do something to control this danger is inexcusable adult behavior! Parents and Authorities must be totally vigilant every moment!

The specific case that caused me to write this article is the Elizabeth Smart kidnapping that occurred in Utah some years ago. The television show that piqued my interest was Anderson Cooper’s 360(CNN) and his recent interview of John Walsh(noted Child Safety Activist). The details of this case sadly begin with a lack of a thorough investigation, by Elizabeth’s Parents(as well meaning as they were trying to be to a fellow human being), of a newly introduced individual(the eventual kidnapper) into their Children’s and Family’s lives. The lack of a complete profile was one of the unintentional factors that  led to an unimaginable and tragic sequence of events — resulting in a nightmare living experience for, most of all, a beautiful young girl, Elizabeth Smart and her Family.

John Walsh went on to describe how Elizabeth’s Parents have been taking wonderful care of Elizabeth since her return by the Police. The Smarts have protected Elizabeth from the media and ensured her having the opportunity to heal. John also pointed out how well Elizabeth and her Parents had protected the prosecution of this case so justice could be done. This has not been the standard in most cases of this nature. Walsh further commented how impressed he was with Lois and Ed Smart.  But, most of all, the knowledgeable Walsh saved his highest praise for Elizabeth . He described her as one of the most remarkable individuals he had ever known. He expressed his total admiration for her courage, her composure, her grace, her style, her patience and her ability to forgive(all concerned, including herself) and move forward.

John Walsh saved his harshest criticism for the selfish and self aggrandizing media. He told of the media’s complete disregard for the well being of any victim—of this victim! They only want to be first with a story, no matter what harm it may cause to an individual, a Family, or a prosecution.

Elizabeth Smart is the “silver lining’ in this story. She exhibits so many qualities, at such a young age, of a true hero. Elizabeth is a shining example of the best ingredients of the human spirit. We honor you, Elizabeth Smart, and wish you an ensuing life of health, happiness, and peace!

Thanks for sharing your time with me—till the next time, stay “ZYKIS SAFE!”

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As Thanksgiving approaches I am reminded not only of a wonderful day that will be spent with family and friends, but also of “Black Friday” and the holiday shopping season that follows.  I get stressed as I think of bustling through the malls and big box stores with my wife and three children trying to get our seasonal shopping list fulfilled.  Adding to that stress are the children, though they are just being kids, who don’t realize the pressure that we parents feel as we scurry through the stores, looking for just the right gifts for everyone on our lists, while at the same time trying to keep an eye open for their whereabouts of not just one, but three young beings.  WHEW! EXHAUSTING!

I recently read an article by Tim Kang (actor—“Mentalist”) and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. I recommend reading this article where we are reminded of some of the basic safety tips we tend to forget as we start our holiday travels or begin our rushing with huge lists of tasks to complete.  Simple thought starters that we need to STOP and take time to map out—such as having a plan if you are split off from your kids—making sure your kids know who to go to for assistance and who to look for.  I am so aware, each time I sit down to write, that it only takes a split second for something to happen, for life to take a right or left turn. Work to be as prepared as possible and should you find yourself in a situation, remain calm.

I wish you all the best of luck should you decide to brave the “Black Friday” frenzy.  More importantly, I wish you a safe–Zykis Safe and joyous holiday season.

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